where my fear of horses comes from

Until quite recently I've always been sort of quite afraid of horses and my wife asked me why that is and I said well I always feel like they're gonna kick me and so she talked this through with me as to sort of where this idea had come from and I remembered that specifically it had come from the fact that when I was quite young I was in a graveyard with my parents and who were alive I wasn't visiting them or anything wasn't like a Bruce Wayne situation and I was in a graveyard with my parents and my mum had discovered the grave of a small child I said oh this this this child died because a horse kicked them which I took on face value as a kid took a face buddy but thinking back to it now how did how did my mum know that no how did you know that did it somewhere in the English Sussex countryside is there is there a small grave of a small child who's here lies sort of Agatha Miller 1956 to 1962 tragically kicked to death by a horse awful laughing